Thoughts on Going from Long Distance to Marriage…

Yes, we were Long Distance. And yes, our marriage is wonderful! I think people don't realize that long distance couples actually do know each other really, really, well. Yes, there are quirks and little things to figure out like who cleans the toilet lol. But going from (long term) long distance dating, to marriage has…Read more Thoughts on Going from Long Distance to Marriage…

“The Pillar That Holds My Life”

This morning I woke up with a song in my spirit. There is a worship song that people sing at my church in Ghana, "You are the pillar that holds my life, Jesus you are the pillar that holds my life..." I woke up singing this little tune today. This song talks about the trustworthy…Read more “The Pillar That Holds My Life”

“Can I Do This?” Dating & Courtship Worries…Are Normal

I hope this helps someone to know that they are not alone, and your worries and doubts about dating are totally normal.  "Sometimes when Evans doesn’t seem excited about me I become discouraged. I start to foolishly think, “What if he doesn’t want to be with me anymore?” Or "What if our relationship gets stale…Read more “Can I Do This?” Dating & Courtship Worries…Are Normal

Communication: A Two-Way Street

I have learned that communication is a two-way street...are you listening to your partner, most importantly are you listening to God? "I cannot touch, smell, see Evans, but that does not lessen His love for me, and that does not mean that he is not supporting me. I know that Evans loves me with his…Read more Communication: A Two-Way Street

Long Distance (LD) Date Ideas #LDLoving

Having a talking schedule AND going on dates often ARE TWO OF THE MOST IMPORTANT  THINGS YOU CAN DO IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP. Anytime you're feeling disconnected, distant, or upset for no reason at your partner...it usually means your "love tank" is empty and yall should plan a date REAL soon (it took Evans…Read more Long Distance (LD) Date Ideas #LDLoving

#winning…but are you actually?

I thought I knew how to love. But I'm only beginning to learn. Sometimes, I have to ask myself am I #winning OR #loving? Tonight we had one of those tough conversations...you know, the ones where you wish you could teleport yourself away (but really). Tough convos are NOT ALWAYS bad, but they usually dig up what's…Read more #winning…but are you actually?