This afternoon my hubby and I heard a podcast about how couples who meet online tend to do just as well as couples who first meet in person. With the rise of dating apps people are just meeting and staying connected differently. It's not a bad or good thing, it's just...different. Although Evans and I…Read more Tips for Surviving Long Distance
Yes, we were Long Distance. And yes, our marriage is wonderful! I think people don't realize that long distance couples actually do know each other really, really, well. Yes, there are quirks and little things to figure out like who cleans the toilet lol. But going from (long term) long distance dating, to marriage has…Read more Thoughts on Going from Long Distance to Marriage…
Hi there! It's been 2 weeks since I've posted. And I have a lot to catch you all up on! Life's had good surprises recently...really, really, amazing surprises actually. Evans was granted his visa, and after a little bit of a scare (not knowing if he'd make it for our wedding...again) he arrived, and we were…Read more A Happily Ever After
This morning I woke up with a song in my spirit. There is a worship song that people sing at my church in Ghana, "You are the pillar that holds my life, Jesus you are the pillar that holds my life..." I woke up singing this little tune today. This song talks about the trustworthy…Read more “The Pillar That Holds My Life”
Don't be discouraged by what people say if you are dating Long Distance...
It's been a while since I've written. So much has occurred in just this month! I saw Evans at a conference we both attended in South Africa, and that was super encouraging. However, we are still waiting on his fiance visa (it's been 7 months now) This process has been one of great joys and…Read more Hello again.
I hope this helps someone to know that they are not alone, and your worries and doubts about dating are totally normal. "Sometimes when Evans doesn’t seem excited about me I become discouraged. I start to foolishly think, “What if he doesn’t want to be with me anymore?” Or "What if our relationship gets stale…Read more “Can I Do This?” Dating & Courtship Worries…Are Normal
Having a talking schedule AND going on dates often ARE TWO OF THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS YOU CAN DO IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP. Anytime you're feeling disconnected, distant, or upset for no reason at your partner...it usually means your "love tank" is empty and yall should plan a date REAL soon (it took Evans…Read more Long Distance (LD) Date Ideas #LDLoving